After talking to the "leader" of our group I found out that I wasn't the only person who got
docked, in fact everyone did. What a bunch of dorks, why oh why do these group members think this was the best time to give criticism, I'll never know. But I do feel better knowing that we're equally hurting rather than just me...
even though I didn't dock anyone...Just sayin' :-)
The "leader" said that what she admired about me the most is my sensitive spirit and caring abilities, but what's going to hurt me in the long run is that I allow things to bother me personally. Umm hello, who wouldn't take being docked by other group members personally?
Maybe my heart just isn't hard enough yet.
This is where lateral violence begins.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness ain't that the truth. Nothing but women and their feelings. Just isn't right.
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